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Facebook Policy

March 8th, 2010 — 9:11pm

Well, this is am embarrassing sort of message.

I blog, and speak and whatnot. And you guys hear me, or read me or whatever, and want to be my Facebook friend. At any given time I have 3-4 friend requests. You want to be my Facebook friend and, well, I don’t know you – meaning, we have never had a conversation, never exchanged emails, never shared a beer or watched a movie together. I would even count twitter interactions, and you and I have not even done that.

So, I am not going to friend you. Nothing personal. I am just trying to create a safe space for me and my family.

If you just want to stay up with my goings on, please follow me on twitter.  That is where the action is, anyway.  If you just hate twitter and only use Facebook, well, I have a page there that gets auto updates, you can read and comment on my stuff, etc.  Please feel free to become a fan.

Look, I hope you don’t take this personally. But if your ego is dependent upon whose 48×48 photo is on your page, maybe you need to reconsider some things.

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Hi There!

February 23rd, 2010 — 11:52am

My post from yesterday, Here I Stand, seems to have struck a chord. I am grateful it meant so much to so many people.

If you are new here (my rss statistics tell me a bunch of you are), let me show you around.

As you may have caught on, professionally I minister to the very poor and homeless here in Raleigh. What gets me in trouble is my belief that God is far more gracious and loving than I could ever be. I am fortunate to be supported in this by a wide ranging group of folks – church folk, hipsters, punks, gays, lawyers, writers, artists, school teachers, home makers, atheists.

Some of these folks help us in practical work, and others support us financially and still others retweet my stuff ridiculous numbers of times. We are incredibly grateful for all of that.

My wife and I live in downtown Raleigh (but not the part most folks want to live in) – sorta figuring that it is hard to tell poor people “I know how you feel” if the gunshots did not keep you awake last night, too. We have a very spoiled cat named Felix, who was born in squalor in a trailer park until we took him away from all of that. Because of his origins, my wife says she always pictures him sounding like Larry the Cable Guy if he could speak.

This is my personal blog, so I won’t talk a lot about the practical aspects of my day to day work here – if you want to know more about that, you might want to check out our Love Wins Ministries site and blog. Also, you might want to read my disclaimers, where I remind you that the words here are mine, and mine alone.

I think a lot about the intersection of faith and culture. I believe one can live a life of faith that leads you to try to change the world. I think most people choose faith because they want to be a better person – but sometimes it seems faith makes people kinda jerky. I wonder about that a lot.

Because I spend my life among the marginalized, I am anxious to create a safe space here for those the church and culture has left behind. That means if you are pretty conservative (in the real meaning of the word – you want things to remain the same), you might be a bit uncomfortable here sometimes. But you will be respected and allowed your voice. We just ask that you do the same to others. Some people call that the Golden Rule – you may have heard of it.

Anyway, thank you for visiting. I hope you will stick around and chime in.

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Housekeeping

December 2nd, 2009 — 2:00pm

Just a heads up that we have changed locations. We are now hosting the site at http://blog.hughlh.com. There were a lot of reasons for doing this, most of which are slightly geeky and have to do with search engines and brand consolidation. See? I told you it was geeky.

In any event, you should not have to do anything different.  I moved the RSS feed and forwarded the existing url to take you to the new one. Your experience should be seamless.

By the way, if you are reading this on RSS or by email, click through and look at the new site – I am sorta proud of it.  I spent most of Thanksgiving weekend hacking away at a bunch of WordPress code, trying to get it to do what I wanted it to do. I am about 90% there.

Looking around, you would think I am taking the site a new direction… and you would be right, sorta. I will write more about that later, though. For now, thank you for your time and attention. It humbles me beyond belief that you guys read my stuff.

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